Let’s face it, sex is part of travel. Whether it’s busy parents, trying to forget soiled nappies and trying to rekindle that lost passion, or travelers seeking adventure and new kicks, or even backpackers searching for a thrill they can tell their mates about, it is part and parcel of the experience of being abroad.
Maybe it’s the romantic notion of being devoid of responsibility, being far from home, and not having anyone know who you are, or all of the above, that makes sex aboard so ilicit and inviting. Intrepid Travel did a survey on 880 singles using the online dating site RSVP.com.au, and it showed that 55 per cent of respondents think that travellers are sexy compared to their non-travelling counterparts. The study found that extreme sports and adventure travelers were the sexiest at 23 percent of the votes, off-the-beaten-path travelers ranked high as well with 22 percent , whilst culture buffs were a lukewarm third at 16 percent.
But while it may be studly and macho to be a wild adventurer, it’s better to take some simple measures to ensure that there are less tears the morning after, especially in the cold light of day. It would be prudent to pay attention to your health especially if you are on long term travels, because the last thing you want to do, is end up in a pickle, so many miles from home, and far from a health care system that you are familiar with. Some South East Asia clinics or hospitals lack the level of healthcare that more affluent countries are blessed with.
According to the World Health Organisation, every year an estimated 333 million episodes of curable sexually transmitted infections occur throughout the world. These are a major cause of infertility, illness and death, and a significant proportion result from international travel. HIV and hepatitis B are more prevalent in some parts of the world than others, but the risk is always there, especially if you are having sex with someone who has multiple partners. The thing is, who actually knows? You could be having sex with the 10,000 though you are only just sleeping with one handsome dude or that one hot chick you met at the bar.
Top 10 Tips For Safe Sex On The Road
To safe you some tears at a later stage, here are 10 tips for safe sex when on your travels:
If you are unsure, or undecided, flee from the situation. Whether you’re a chick or a dude, get out of there ASAP and don’t look back. Don’t do anything you don’t want to do. Trust me, you will have the last laugh in the morning.
2. The Mighty Condom
A condom is the best protection you can provide yourself. It not only protects you from unwanted pregnancies, but also from STDs , some of which like HIV/AIDS can be deadly. Also, use only one condom at a time, which will more than suffice, and oh, wearing two condoms together is actually totally bollocks .. a myth, so don’t do it.
3. Don’t Do it Wasted
Drug use or alcohol abuse interferes with decision-making, which can lead to date rape, forgetting to use contraceptives or contracting an STDs. The lowering of inhibitions that often accompanies alcohol use might make you think you’ll enjoy sex more, but in fact, for a variety of biochemical reasons, too much alcohol actually makes sex less enjoyable for both men and women.
4. Get Vaccinated
Sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) are infections that you can get from having sex with someone who has the infection. The causes of STDs are bacteria, parasites and viruses. There are more than 20 types of STDs, including:
Bacterial Vaginosis (BV)
HIV/AIDS & STDs
Human Papillomavirus (HPV)
Pelvic Inflammatory Disease (PID)
If you know you’re the sort who just cannot stay away from the action, then get vaccinated for Hepatitis A and B as well as the human papilloma virus (HPV) which causes genital warts and cancer.
5. Use the buddy system
If you go to a party or a bar, go with friends and keep an eye out for each other. Agree that you won’t leave with another person without telling someone. Sometimes a friend’s second opinion, or slap in the face, as I like to call it, could help prevent you from making decisions that you might regret later.
6. Put a condom where your mouth is
Oral sex can lead to HIV infections – especially for the person giving oral sex. The best way to protect yourself is by using a condom. If the idea of all that lubrication on the condom turns you off, a good option for oral sex is a non-lubricated, flavoured one!
7. Carry extra condoms
This is just common sense – in case one breaks or tears while it’s being put on, it’s best to have an extra one around.
8. Super up with Supplements
Traveling long term, and frequent weekends of lust and debauchery will eventually take its toll. Taking supplements can help to boost the immune system and keep you from being susceptible to bacteria and viruses, which could otherwise make you fall ill, easily.
9. Make sexual health a priority
Whether you are having sex or not, both men and women need to have regular check-ups to make sure they are sexually healthy.
10. Work it off
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#6: you can’t catch the heebee jeevees with casual oral sex; that’s a total myth (I only know about this because I had to do research for school) – HOWEVER with open sores and cuts, you definitely can. Great way to catch the “travel bug” ha ha!
I do like the running/exercise option – however, intense sexual attraction and passion is undeniable, and at most times, unavoidable therefore throwing inhibitions out the window in no time.
#2 – myth.
there is no such thing as 100% protection, you still catch things even with a condom.
and you can get pregnant too, just ask around.
I like the buddy system, smart moves there. Unless they are more intoxicated than you are, which has happened. lol
“Travel Bug”, ha clever. An interesting euphemism to explain how you contracted hepatitis while abroad.
Great post… brings new meaning to ‘catching the travel bug’… *shudders*
Haha, if you’re feeling lonely, don’t do it, go for a run! love it
This is an awesome post Samuel..ahahaha. It’s so true! I also find travelers more sexy than people that ARE NOT! Also, it’s easier for people to feel more sexual while they are traveling cus people are more relax I guess!!! Thanks for the tips:P…
If I had only known about these vaccinations lol ;).
this is by far the best travel sex tips I have read online and I say, this are darn useful. 🙂
One night of happiness with an unsure partner ends up a lifetime of sickness so to speak.
That’s very true Doc!
Really Ted.. care the share..? mwuahahha…
I would like to share, but I do not want to tarnish the high reputation of Nomadic Samuel’s site with my depraved mind.
Hahahaha, anything ‘chocolate flavoured’ would be worth exploring 😛
That’s what she said 🙂
When I participated in Carnival in Trinidad & Tobago, they gave us chocolate flavored condoms. I could see a great pick up line coming out of that.
Very interesting article. Its not a good idea to engage in sex with someone when travelling. Its better to be safe then sorry. But as you say, sex is an integral part of travelling.
It definitely plays out better to be safe but I’m sure most of us have done some crazy stuff on the road 😛
Hi Shalu.. better safe than sorry, that’s for sure. After 5 rounds of black label and half a dozen shots.. anybody could look hot 😛 haha
Sam, I thought you were getting all sexual on us then I realised it was Ciki at the end haha! Gotta say, great tips…although the oral one…seriously I don’t know anybody that does that with a condom. But hey, it does pay to be safe – nobody wants to pick up anything nasty on the road, that’s for sure.
Hahaha, this is exactly what I was thinking Tom 😛 Which is why, back when I was single, I just avoided oral sex at all costs. I just can’t bring myself to…taste latex…bahh even the flavored ones are nasty 😛
– Maria Alexandra
Hahahaha, you guys were definitely fooled 😛 I learned a few things from Ciki here as well 🙂
Maria.. tastes nasty I agree 😛 hahaha
Hi Tom.. I guess.. LOL!! Either that or get tested before you do the deed but that kinda defeats the purpose of a one night stand right?! :p LOL. Or just avoid it like @latinAbroad says 😛
Honored to be featured, thanks Sam;)
Thanks Ciki! Really appreciate the post 🙂
Indeed, they are 🙂